What people are saying.

  • “In her heartfelt, poetic narrative, she takes you deep into the heart of a Love that insists that we are not either/or but both/and, exposing the “isms” that seek to divide us.”

    — FR. Richard Rohr, OFM

  • “If you have no intention of being confronted, challenged, and changed, I would avoid this book.”

    — Paul Young

  • “Felicia Murrell does not just offer you well-chosen and beautifully arranged words: she offers you her soul, and it is a wise soul, a deep soul, a creative and generous soul.”

    — Brian Mclaren

  • "In this well-written meditation on love, Felicia Murrell offers us a resting place, a wake-up call, a soul-quickening. This book is luminous and wise."

    Mirabai Starr

    Teacher, author, Wild Mercy

  • "There, in the “both/and” of my own real life—wounds and wonders, beauty and affliction—I remember again, I am beloved. I often forget. But Felicia’s kind voice represents, for me, what a healed conscience can become in full bloom. I will wear this book out."

    Bradley Jersak

    Principal, St. Stephen’s University

    Author, Out of the Embers

  • "Weaving together poetry and prose, Felicia shares vulnerably, guiding us from her own story to encourage, challenge, confront, and call us to love. This beautiful, healing book takes us on an embodied journey, inviting us to fully inhabit our humanity, to defy our divides, to live as one."

    Susan Carson

    Podcaster, speaker, and author, Rooted (IN): Thriving in Connection with God, Yourself, and Others

  • "And: The Restorative Power of Love in an Either/Or World is a kaleidoscope of hope in a world that often feels torn by the controlling certitudes and safe binaries we cling to. This is a book you will want to savor slowly and digest over a lifetime."

    Brie Stoner

    Musician, author, and artist